I, Me, Myself

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I am the kind of person you can know for a day and feel like you have known forever, or know for years and know nothing about. I find it easy to adapt, I love change, I get bored easily, I can be both abstract and logical, I am ambitious, I am extroverted but I need to be alone sometimes, I am very open, I trust people easily, I often don’t learn from my mistakes, I am almost always laughing or smiling, I wear my heart on my sleeve, I rarely care what people think, I am very honest, I am a good liar when I need to be, I am vain, I am a perfectionist, I try to look for the best in people, I believe that most people have good intentions, I am blunt, I don’t sugarcoat things, I have very few insecurities, I am very confident, I crave attention, I can be very cynical sometimes, I despise organized religion, I respect people who dare to be different, and I love animals. I value loyalty above all things, I hate narrow-minded people, I am a liberal, I am always bold, I am always very open, I don’t like politics, I hate not being right, and I try not to be judgmental. I love to make and break things. I am I J.

Saturday, July 30, 2011

Confidence and Believe

Yesterday I wrote some poems and articles about Indian Economy and Corruption. I will share them after a couple of weeks. So, I am back with a new post. We were on a success path. The theory continues…

When you are about to start a new firm or about to join a firm, a lot of people tell you about the advantages and disadvantages of them. Some people give you great ideas and some people feel jealous; so, they will give you the harmful ideas. But at the end it’s up to you - you are the one who will take decision. Only you can judge your business. But I will tell you to think ahead of your time. It’s one of the best advices I have ever received from my manager (Nigel). I loved him for that. He often says some inspirational stuff.

Confidence and dedication are the essential things for success. These two things tell your mind to move ahead and find ways and things for success. And the basic things I always noticed in my life that if you believe you will succeed, others will believe you automatically. I don’t know what it is but it’s magic, pure magic.

After talking to lot of people I came to know that lot of people don’t believe in the power of confidence. Those people who are confident that they can push the mountains, they surely can and those who think they can’t, they don’t. From my perspective confidence and believe are the ultimate keys. We are inching closer to the Jupiter. We can reach there. No doubt about that. We can create buildings on mars because of believe. You can’t do anything if you are not confident about it. Believe in the thing between all inventions. Thomas Edison failed for more than 1000 times but in the end, he did it. Just believe in your success and you will see a new world.

I really observe people all the time. I show them that I am feeling low and I am disturbed and I am frustrated from my life and they always tell me the negative and positive aspects. They always tell me the truth. It’s magic. When you open your heart to people - they will tell you the truth about you. I listen to them very carefully and then analyze the stuff in my mind. Sometimes they say very correct stuff and very unpredictable stuff, which you don’t even think in your worst dreams.

Those who don’t believe in themselves always have the theory of “I will try but I don’t think I can do this”. Moral of the statement is very simple – if you don’t believe in yourself, you can’t do anything. Napoleon always said, “If you doubt, you will lose and if you think about win, you will win.”

I am not a good student. I am not exceptional. I was a bad student throughout my academic career. I can’t learn anything because I am suffering from a disease. I can’t speak fluent English or Hindi either. Actually I am a less than average boy. I have only one thing - I believe in myself. I believe in whatever I do. I believe that I can write well. I believe that I can write good articles. I believe that I can change someone’s life by my writing and talking to him/her. I believe that I am the best writer in the world. That’s my success theory.

I respect all the great leaders and innovators. I respect Bill Gates, Jack Welch, Henry Ford, Napoleon & Others. But I will tell you one thing. Respects all but fear no one. Learn from them. Listen to them carefully. Note down their speech. Observe them but don’t worship them. Think about yourself. Think that one day you will be ahead of them. Think that you can beat them up. Believe that you can reach at the top and you will. If you think you can’t be a CEO then you can’t. Every work is important. Always work like a scientist and do work like you have to invent something. Don’t feel shy in front of others. If you see yourself as a loser, others will see the same thing. If you see yourself as a confident person, others will see the same. Be important for yourself.

A person’s success depends on his / her thoughts. Think big, dream big. Think you can do bigger things and work hard for it. Start your day today with the belief and confidence that you can do it. You can be successful. If you believe that you can become a great personality, you can. Can is the word of power, energy and believe.

You know all the greatest personalities of the world are not very intelligent, sharp and talented. They only have one thing in common. They knew that they can. They believe that they can. So just be yourself. Do your best and god will do the rest. I am ending this one with the quotation of Mahatma Gandhi. He always said that, “Man often becomes what he believes himself to be. If I keep on saying to myself that I can not do a certain thing, it is possible that I may end by really becoming incapable of doing it. On the contrary, if I have the belief that I can do it, I shall surely acquire that capacity to do it. Even if I may not have it at the beginning.”

So, friends – always think success, you will succeed. Do what is necessary, learn what is necessary. Develop yourself, dream big, imagine great things and think success and you will see the progress. You will see the magic of believe. Cheers!

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